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For Teachers – Prevention Strategies

The dynamics of victimization suggest targeted children are often chosen for the very qualities that prevent them from saying “no” or telling someone about the abuse. Vulnerable children with low self-esteem, poor communication skills, a lack of understanding about how and where to get help are at a higher risk of victimization.

Self-Esteem

Children who are confident and feel good about themselves are not only less likely to be victimized, but also less likely to grow up to victimize others. Teachers can help children to build self-esteem.

1. Teach children to say positive things about themselves: positive self-talk increases self-respect, which can impact how children see themselves and how they are treated by others. Help your students practice positive affirmations.
2. Focus on strengths: help children believe in themselves. Guide them to identify things they are good at, enjoy doing or that others appreciate about them.
3. Model respect: children learn from the actions of adults. Speak well of others, avoid using sarcasm and be aware of negative body language.
4. Motivate through praise: children are more likely to co-operate when they feel they’re valued and well-liked. Berating, embarrassing or constantly reprimanding a child can build resentment and work against your efforts to influence behaviour.
5. Create projects: support creativity within the classroom and school. Motivate your students with pride, accomplishment and the courage to try something new.

Communication

Children can increase skill and confidence in themselves as communicators when they receive support to communicate in situations they recognize as important. Teachers can help their students develop communication skills:

1. Talk with them: give lots of opportunity for children to participate in conversations.
2. Listen to them: recognize that what children have to say is important.
3. Respect them: when you consider your students’ feelings, they learn that everyone’s feelings are valued.
4. Set an example for them: surround your students with positive communication where ideas and feelings are expressed openly.
5. Guide them: Recognize that words are powerful and use positive messages when responding to your students

Decision Making

For children, learning to make positive choices involves:
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Recognizing they have the ability to make decisions

 
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Having the opportunity to practice developmentally appropriate decision-making, as a group and independently

 
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Using critical thinking skills such as identifying cause and effect, analysing, processing, and predicting

 
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Recognizing that making decisions is developmental and it’s okay to ask for help if the choices are confusing.

 
Teachers can help their students learn how to make positive choices:
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Allow opportunities for choice – provide the chance to make age-appropriate decisions every day.

 
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Express confidence – let your students know you have faith in their ability to make reasonable choices.

 
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Consider others: consider your students’ feelings when you make decisions, and they will learn to consider others in their decision-making.

 
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Respect the choices of others: show your students you respect the choices of others by accepting their decisions, as long as no one’s well-being is being jeopardized.

 
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Consider different points of view: help your students value what others have to say.

 

Respecting Others

Respect entails a universal regard for differences and a celebration of culture, religion, values, family, and diversity. Teachers can help their students learn the importance of respect:

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Show respect: listen to what others have to say.

 
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Talk openly: all feelings and ideas are valuable and important and can be talked about.

 
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Set an example: treat everyone in the class fairly; provide opportunities for all students that respect their interests and abilities.

 
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Appreciate people’s differences: participate in events and activities that give children the opportunity to share in and appreciate the beliefs and customs of others.

 

How and Where to Get Help

Help children understand there are two kinds of support systems: a formal support system that includes teachers, doctors, nurses, counselors, police, and child protection services; and an informal support system that includes family, friends, relatives, and neighbours. Teachers can support their students to feel comfortable asking for help:

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Identify supports: talk with students to identify which adults they would go to for help; who they choose must be someone they trust.

 
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Talk about secrets: discuss the difference between secrets and surprises – reinforce the message that no one has the right to ask you to keep a secret, especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

 
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Always trust your feelings: emphasize to students that they should trust their feelings and talk to someone if they need help, even if they feel embarrassed, confused, or scared about telling.

 
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Set an example: show children the different ways friends and family help one another.

 
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Keep telling: empower children to get help for themselves and others by encouraging them to keep telling until someone helps them.

 

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